Evaluating healers: ethics, authenticity, & skill level

(originally posted on 12 October 2018, from my previous blog)

At least 3 or 4 times a month, I’m asked to evaluate the skill level and effectiveness of other healers, shamans, and alternative practitioners. As our nation begins to accept more magical & spiritual forms of healing, the general public needs a way to evaluate the practitioners they work with.

I maintain the hope that many of us do this work for our communities in order to help others with a high level of professionalism and ethics. But, just as there are predatory & manipulative persons in every occupation, the healing community also has its predators, manipulators, thieves, sexual offenders, untrained practitioners, and other types of disingenuous folks.

Many clients seek out healers that are complete strangers to them. Alternative healing communities function on reputation, but it can be difficult to know a healer’s reputation without testimonials and reviews. Here are a few questions that have helped me evaluate other practitioners when I am seeking out my own healing, and when referring clients to additional treatment team members:

Do they allow the client to make the choice for healing, or do they try to mandate/manipulate/”trick” them into services?

  1. This directly addresses the healer’s ability to educate the client, but not force the client, into services. Clients must be ready, willing, and able to change, and if a practitioner attempts to force any of those three areas in order to “get a booking” the healing won’t work.
  2. Ethical & fully informed consent for treatment should be the MANDATORY standard of their practice.

What is their training, how long, and with whom?

  1. There is a lot of confusion regarding what is cultural appropriation & what is cultural exchange. A healer working outside of their ancestral culture should be able to speak to the training they have received in that culture, and refer back to their teachers (similar to how citations work within an academic paper). Many of those trained in technique-heavy programs are missing the cultural context in which the magical technology originated, and so their effectiveness will not be the same. This is especially true of shamanic healing, which is based on relationships with Spirits, not just techniques from different cultures.  Depending on the type of healing modality, training in a wide variety of mediums is best, but books and online lectures do not replace the direct supervision of a human teacher.
  2. Within the United States, many folks begin training and working in the field of alternative healing practices to lend support to their families and friends as a part-time job, or a career change later in life. Those who have attended schooling & worked in fields unrelated to health & human services will have a greater difficulty transitioning to this type of work. It is not impossible, but working for humans, animals, and the spiritual community involves additional training beyond what most shamanic schools present.

What greater spiritual work are they doing for the Community and/or World at large?

  1. It’s 2018 (now 2021), and at least within the United States, there are HUGE SHIFTS happening at the micro and macro level of the populace. Many spiritual healers have discovered the trend of being Called to more advanced work on behalf of the planet (climate change, politics, healing the trauma of the world, replanting ayahuasca vines that have been overfarmed due to drug-seeking behaviors, etc). This Work is almost always unpaid and can possibly be the greatest work of a shaman’s life.  
    1. If the healer you are researching doesn’t work for the Spirits in this way, then they either haven’t reached that point in their training, or they are only interested in the monetary value of their work. This can lead to the dreaded cult of personality/guru syndrome that affects most unethical/manipulative persons within the healing communities.

All of us are called to this Work in different ways, and are in different places in our training. The world is shifting, and more healers are discovering their magics. Hopefully, these questions will help you to evaluate your practitioners just as carefully as you evaluate your doctors, therapists, and dentists.


Good luck, and stay safe,
Monika Kojote

FREE info: Rites of Passage group

Many of us here in the U.S. struggle with the process of becoming a fully realized, healthy, integrated adult. Within spiritual and shamanic cultures, both community celebration & ritual are used to energetically honor the movement of time. Adulthood, creation of a family, adoption of a pet, marriage, divorce, midlife challenges, physical body changes, mental health concerns, elderhood, births, deaths… all of these different experiences evolve our souls. This working group will provide a safe space to all genders for discovering Who They Are (LGBTIA+ inclusive).

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The Zoom link will be posted the day before to those that mark “going” on this event on Facebook. And yes, I too grumble often about that social media platform, but the ability to create events for a wide audience can’t be matched (yet)… Please join me for a FREE information session on Wednesday, June 30th, at 7pm EST!

Midsummer healing ceremony with Cicada Spirit!

Happy Midsummer blessings to you all this week! For those that could make it, we met in community on Sunday evening to celebrate the summer solstice, the safety of hidden darkness, and the symbolism of the Cicada spirit.

This ceremony is free to any viewer, and I’ve set up the calling of the spirits so that they will come whenever and wherever you view this ritual; enjoy!

(c) Rev. Monika Kojote, Midsummer 2021

Summer solstice ceremony LIVE!

On Sunday, June 20th, at 7:00pm EST, I will be going LIVE on my Facebook Page to facilitate a donation-based healing ceremony. This is a rescheduled ritual, due to my first headcold in 1.5 years, ugh.

(c) Rev. Monika Kojote, 2021 Photo by Suz Redfearn

Summer Solstice, as one of the many sacred Druid holidays within the Celtic culture, honors the midpoint of summer in the northern hemisphere. I will be going live through Facebook‘s event to speak about the history of this holy day, as well as the symbolism of the longest day of the year. We will also work with the Cicada spirit for healing, as Brood X brings transformation, emergence, and alignment with the end-stages of the COVID-19 pandemic.

Happy Shamanniversary!

On April 30, 2021, I celebrated 11 years working as a Druid shaman for the public community! My life changed drastically during the past decade, and I offer insights into my personal healing philosophy, the complicated and ever-changing definition of the Tungus word “shaman”, upcoming projects (i.e., Rites of Passage working group, new healing school), and a ceremony of thanks and healing to the Community: